I’m about to head off on my next big international vacation and besides seeking out the best sunbathing spot on the soft white sands of my idyllic destination, I am also going to be on the lookout for the island hottie. There is something about being in a foreign country, where no one knows me, that makes me lower my walls and lose my inhibitions. It helps me relax, and that makes me happier and therefore more attractive.

Whether you’re travelling with friends or flying solo, nothing says vacation like hooking up with someone new in a strange land. Having dipped into the summer fling once or twice myself, in Italy and New York, I know the allure of a quick tryst is hard to beat. It feels exciting, effortless, and a little unreal. But fleeting romances are just that, temporary, so do not get too attached. The chemistry may be instant, but the clock is always ticking.

Holiday romances are good for your mind, body and soul but safety comes first too so don’t forget to pack contraceptives and ensure your valuables are well-guarded. Don’t just wander off with your conquest into parts unknown; at least tell your friends or your hotel receptionist where you’re going. Never leave your drinks unattended either. One can never be too careful being a single female traveller. A little common sense goes a long way when everything else feels carefree.

You’re young(ish) and in the prime of your life, being romanced in a gorgeous location and life is for the living. Quit worrying about what anyone will say and just enjoy the moment. These are the kinds of adventures you may end up telling your grandchildren someday, so go out there and make some unforgettable memories. You can always get back to serious dating when you’re back home. For now, love the one you’re with and let yourself enjoy the story as it happens.